Mini post…. How to build a ‘Nappy Crown Cake’ 🎂 👑 👶🏼

Since I published my post celebrating the birth of all little princes and princesses (in association with Pampers) I have had lots of questions about how to create the ‘Nappy Crown Cake’ shown in my image.

So an answer those questions I’ve put together this quick mini blog post and included the videos I previously shared on stories, to help show how it was made! I promise it’s easy!!!

Enjoy and good luck with your own creations!

Lots of love

Lindsay x

My pregnancy photos…. By AMANDA JANE DALBY PHOTOGRAPHY

I am so pleased that I can finally share these pictures with you and I hope you love them as much as I do!

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Whilst I was expecting Jude I was lucky enough to meet with the amazing Amanda of AMANDA JANE DALBY PHOTOGRAPHY, who gifted me with this fantastic photoshoot as a way of preserving these special moments in my pregnancy. The photos were all taken in my own home and garden, with my home comforts around, and with both Harvey and Dexter (our dog) taking part when it worked. Looking back at these pictures and seeing Harvey looking so small and my bump looking so big brings back such memories. I can’t think of a better way to commemorate such a special time in all our lives, and my only regret is that I didn’t do the same when I was expecting Harvey.

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Amanda is a natural light family portrait photographer based in Redhill. She covers Areas in Surrey, London and South West London. She places an emphasis on fun and relaxed family photos and aims to capture timeless images for you keep forever.

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Click HERE to link to Amandas website and see more of her amazing images, find out more about her photography style and background, as well as discovering how you can go about getting your own special images created. My personal favourites are the beautiful family images in the galleries, go and take a peek!

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A huge thank you to the amazingly talented Amanda, you have captured such gorgeous happy memories for us to keep and cherish forever, and for that we are so grateful.

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Lots of love 

Lindsay 

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Mothers Day count down….. gifts ideas!!

If, like me, you have completely lost track of days and times you may not be aware that in just two short weeks ‘Mothers Day’ is going to creep up upon us! Yes that day when we celebrate just how wonderful and amazing our mums are and attempt to give them a card and perhaps a small something that demonstrates how grateful we are for all their help.

Now that I am a mummy myself mothers day, and mummy appreciation has taken on a whole new level of importance. But mothers day isn’t just for us mums it’s also for all those mums to be. So here is a quick look at a few mothers day gift ideas that both new mums, old mums and those mums to be, might like to receive on that special day. I’ve tried to give you a range of ideas as lets face it all mums are differen. But more importantly i have stuck to small bussinsess each ran by mums themselves! Good luck and lets try and shop small this mothers day and support each other!

For the Mama who loves her coffee

The must have ‘Yummy Mummy Mug’ from a small business owner and coffee loving mummy…

(Get a 20% discount on the ‘Yummy Mummy Mug’ with code RUSTIC)

https://beanbaby.co.uk

For the Mama who loves it personalised

The personalised jumper made by an amazing Insta mummy, using the most gorgeous liberty prints and a humongous amount of love, care and attention…

https://www.magnificentstanley.com

For the Mama who wants you to know it

The t-shirts all fabulous mothers should own…

https://www.latotch.com

For the mummy who likes luxury 

A gift from ‘The English Beagle’ a business dedicated to promoting small independent UK businesses…

(get a 15% discount across all products until the 11th March with code RUSTIC)

https://theenglishbeagle.com

For the mummy to be

A selection of tea to help prepare and nourish them for the whats to come and whats to follow…

https://www.hotteamama.com

For the mummy who deserves a little bit for every thing

The Motherly love Box (limited edition) from the beautiful brand that is Gerrard and Grace and the lovely couple that run it with such dedication and kindness…

https://gerrardandgrace.co.uk

Lots of love 

Lindsay x

Baby bag….. Two under Two 🧒🏼👶🏼

I’ve had lots of questions recently asking about which type of baby bag I use and what I pack in it now I have two under two to think about! So here is a little peak at what I have and use, as well as what I keep inside!

I use two different baby bags depending on what we’re doing in the day and where we are going!

Bag one….. the Pacapod Croyde (in pewter)

This bag is plenty big enough for all the baby and toddler needs, comes with handy pods to help you organise bits, has a large zip at the top and around the front for super easy access, plus it has a small portable changing mat!

Bag two…….. Storksak Hero Floral.

This is a backpack style bag and again really very spacious! Exactly what I need with two to cater for. This also comes with a handy changing mat and extra matching feeding bag! I find this incredibly useful when I want to be hands free and chasing a toddler about!

In the past I’ve found using backpacks as baby bags frustrating as unlike the usual style of baby bag it’s not easy to access everything! However the Storksak have really thought carefully about the design and the Hero Floral has lots of useful pockets as well as an access point at the back of the bag down the bottom, meaning you don’t have to empty the bag to get to the items you’ve packed first.

So what do I pack in them….

Whatever bag I decide to use when I’m heading out with the boys, I try and be as organised as possible (and in advance, I like my bag to be pre packed as much as it can be). I arrange the boys nappies and bits separately and make sure I have all the spare things I might need!

The boys each have a letter bag, Harvey has had his since he was born and we recently got a similar one for Jude! I keep the boys nappies, wipes and creams in these. It makes it quick and easy, plus anyone who’s with me (and offering to help out) can easily identify who’s is who’s. Think of it like a dummy’s guide, especially for the boys dad, otherwise I’m sure I’d end up seeing Jude in one of Harvey’s nappies! 😂 I then just move them between bags as and when I need to.

I always pack spare clothing for Jude, extra baby grow, vest, scratch mittens, socks etc as well as a large swaddle muslin (so many uses). Depending on where we are going and how long for depends on how many spare sets I pack, sometimes it’s safer to have two spare sets.

I don’t often pack spares for Harvey, now he’s eighteen months old, he generally doesn’t need any. However if I know we’re going somewhere that might be wet or muddy I take spares, plus wellies and waterproofs! Our favourites are his Joules wellies and Muddypuddle waterproofs.

The next items I pack are extra layers for both boys, essential at this time of year! A hat, booties and thick, warm cardigan for Jude and gloves and an extra jumper or thick top for Harvey! (Harvey isn’t keen on keeping a hat on at the moment but sometime I’ll try and sneak this in as well)

A few bits for me….. my hands get so dry!!

My baby carrier….. Jude loves to be carried and this comes in a handy bag, I don’t leave the house without one. I either pop it in the top of my baby bag or on the bottom of the buggy!

The feeding pod that came in my pacapod bag! It’s fantastic and the prefect size for fitting in all the essentials….. a spare muslin, bib, milk, bottles, nursing shawl and my toddler tracker! Or whatever it is that you need for feeding. Plus I can also squeeze in a snack for the toddler and his water cup! It’s seals up nicely so I don’t have to worry about leaks or mess!

I hope this has been helpful and answers a few of your questions.

links to both ⬇️

Pacapod Croyde (pewter)Storksak Hero Floral Both these bags have been gifted to me but my views are my own and very honest.

Love Lindsay X

Christmas gift ideas for mums to be……🎄 

Yes I said the “Christmas” word, but now halloween and bonfire night are out the way the count-down really is on! That’s means it’s time to start thinking about gifts and for the more organised of us planning ahead. 

So to help out those relatives, friends and partners of mums to be, and to give the soon to be mummy’s some ideas for their Christmas list, I thoughts I would put together a little list of mum to be gift ideas for all budgets with a few of my favourites! 

Up to £20…..
Hottea Mama….. pregnancy gift set £18

Trilogy Certified Organic Rosehip Oil £19.50


Pregnancy Journal £10


Sleep Night-Time Bath and Shower Gel £12

Top Shop Maternity….. Bonjour BabyT-shirt £16



£20 – £50….

Bloom & Blossom X Mamas and Papas dressing gown £39





Marks and Spencer….. luxury cashmere socks £35 





In the box gifts – Mama to be £35+ (pre designed boxes or build your own)





Mama Mio Push Pack £40




Isabella Oliver…… Maternity scoop top (Available in a range of colours) £39

£50 – £100…..

Joules Cozies Suede Slippers £59.99



Champneys pregnancy massage…. Mama Mio top to toe £85



Isabella Oliver…. Emily maternity dress £95

Mama Mio Bloomin Lovely pamper pack £50


Seraphine…… The Bump Kit £85

£100+ 

T+M Selfridges Elwood Backpack Black/Gold £130




BBhugme maternity pillow £135

Enjoy shopping!!!

Love 


Lindsay 


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What I’ll be packing in my hospital bag this time! 

You would think that second time around packing a hospital bag would be quite self explanatory, after all there are less than eighteen months between one and two so I should be able to remember, right? 


Nope I’ve completely forgotten it all and I had to return to good old ‘Google’ to jog my brain into remembering all the bits that I might need and when to pack it (recommendations varied to pack your bag between 34 and 36 weeks, as I’m nearly 36 I guess I best get packing). Once I got going it was a little easier, although these lists could go on forever I’ve tried not to include too much, before you know it, your packing the kitchen sink… you know “just in case”.


For the Mummy to be!!!

Labour time…..

  • Something super comfy to wear during labour (something you don’t care to much about!)
  • Any extras you want for your labour experience – birthing plan/preferences, electric candles, mini speakers, scented diffuser etc.
  • A pillow, extra comfort will be needed, again before and after.
  • Food and drink – your going to need your energy.
  • Books/magazines/music – things you can relax with, you don’t know how long you will be in; before (if your induced) and after!
  • Don’t forget your hospital notes and any birth plan/preferences you’ve organised.


After birth…..

  • Right up the top of the list – Giant granny pants for after!! Yep it’s all about comfort not glamour! (And always pack spares, more than you think your need)
  • Comfortable bra’s (2/3) nursing ones if your planning on breast feeding.
  • Sanitary pads (make sure you pack enough and go for the super absorbent type, Mothercare and other baby shops sell maternity specific ones.)
  • Your wash bag with all of the essentials.
  • Clean comfy pjs for after your labour, when you’ve had a shower and your finally feeling a bit more you again (I would suggest a dark colour) and more than one pair, you never know how long your going to be in and don’t want to be caught short.
  • Slippers or huge fluffy grippy socks, no one likes cold toes. 
  • Dressing gown
  • Towel
  • Food and drink for after – I was so hungry after baby one! 
  • Comfortable clothing for you to travel home in.


And for the baby….

  • Bottles and ready made milk if you are planning on bottle feeding.
  • Small burping Muslin.
  • Large swaddle Muslin.
  • Soft baby blankets from home.
  • Baby grows (newborn or if you have big babies like me 0-3 months!)
  • Hat
  • Cardigan
  • Vests 
  • Newborn nappies
  • Wipes (I love water wipes for a newborn)
  • Don’t forget to have the car seat in the car ready to bring up to the room at home time. 

And of course a bag to keep it all in. When I head into the hospital I quite liked separating out mine and the baby’s stuff, I found it easier when I was doing those last minute rummages to actually find the bits I needed, or trying to direct the other half as to where to find things.

For all the babies essentials I’ll be using the PacaPod Croyde bag. It’s clever design allows you to separate out all the babies bits and pieces for easy accesss (and husband proof rummaging!). Its unique pod design means you to easily locate the bits you need by packing them separately into the individual pods. The bottles and milk into the feeding pod, spare/change of clothes, nappies and wipes into the changer pod. Then any extra bits and pieces into the clear travel pod. 

It’s extra roomy size means that it’s perfect for packing any extra “just in case” hospital bits and when I’m finally home I know it’s size will mean it’s great for packing both toddler and baby bits together when we head out for the day. 
The bag has lots of other handy features including changing mat, cross body strap, pram attatchment straps, large parent pockets for easy access to all those bits and pieces you need (with the addition of a handy key fob attachment.) As an added bonus, when your not using it as a baby bag, it’s large enough in size to accommodate most laptops and all the bits and pieces you might want for baby free travel! 

Now I’m just to sort a bag for my own bits and pieces! 

I hope you have found my little summary helpful. I’ve linked some of my favourite baby bits that I have mentioned I’ll be packing below.

Love 

Lindsay 

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  1. PacaPod Croyde bag
  2. Storksak Muslin Swaddle
  3. StorkSak Muslin Squares
  4. Water wipes
  5. Pampers Newborn Nappies
  6. Comfy PJs (for after)
  7. Dressing gown
  8. Sanitary pads

My hypnobirthing experience so far! 

With less than six weeks until the bumps due date we are certainly on the count down to ‘D day’. Recently, I have tried to try rewind my mind back to my feelings at this same point in my previous pregnancy and I find it hard to pinpoint how I was feeling. I don’t remember ever feeling afraid, I like to look on the positive (yet realistic) side of things, what was to be was to be and what was to come was the unknown. 

I remember thinking there was little I could do and not knowing what to expect, yet also having few expectations. I had done my trusty NCT course and was the only remaining mummy in my group to give birth. Each of the birth stories in our group had varied so much, from premature births, to natural water births, epidural desperate mums and emergency c-sections. As a result I felt there was no way I could know what was to come so I might as well just go with it. I was asked many times if I had a birth plan; the answer was simply ‘no’, I question how you can plan something so unpredictable, something you know so little about! To that end I much prefer the hypnobirthing way of wording it ‘birth preferences.’ My ‘preferences’ a natural, non induced, water birth! 

Fast forward to today and much is the same, what will be will be and what’s to come is still the unknown! By birth preferences remain the same. I’d prefer it to happen naturally, I’d love a water birth, with minimal intervention if I can. But these, just like before, are just preferences! With Harvey I went two weeks over due and after two failed sweeps I was induced. Unfortunately from this point forward it didn’t go so well and a lot of the birth was taken out of my hands. This time my preference is to keep control! 

Looking back at my birth preparation with baby one it was minimal really. My NCT course was interesting and provided me with a great group of friends (eighteen months on a still talk to on a daily basis.) But in regards to what it taught me about birth preparation I felt it just reinforced a lot of what I already knew (although I’m aware this varies depending on course and instructor.) So this time around I was excited to have the opportunity to learn about birth from a different perspective and embraced the opportunity to try hypnobirthing. 

We did our course with the lovely Jemma from @stilettostostrollers. Jemma set up her bussiness after a positive experience of hypnobirthing herself and is a prefect example of how well it can work. Jemma had a calm and peaceful water birth at home. 

I was slightly apprehensive as to how my husband would feel about the course, and yes he was skeptical to start with. However, after our sessions were finished and we were discussing what we had learnt he admitted that actually he could see the benefit of the sessions and he was also left feeling more prepared. 

Hypnobirthing is a complete antenatal course and aims to teach you the techniques needed for a calm and controlled birth. It hopes to leave you feeling empowered, confident about your birthing choices and reduce the associated fear of childbirth. The program aims to teach you the philosophy of hypnobirthing and birth. As well as the important of connecting both mind and body to help you understand how fear can affect birth. It also teaches the important role of your bith companion throughout your labour and delivery. It wants couples to look forward to the day their baby arrives, not to worry or even worse fear the day. 

The course certainly equips you with simple self hypnosis, relaxation and breathing techniques. Including meditation scripts and audio affirmations, plus tonnes of other tips and tricks(always helpful!). Ultimately it gives you the knowledge to understand your options, empowers you and allows you the chance to make confident choices throughout your labour and birth. 

We compleated two sessions with Jemma, one as a small group (three couples) and the second was a 1 2 1 at home. Jemma was great, she was easy to talk to, realistic, honest and happy to answer any questions we had. She made us feel relaxed in our sessions and we finished our final session feeling more prepared for what was to come. 

So what can you expect to find on a hypnobirthing course? A mix of breathing exercises (to be practiced pre and used during labour), relaxation techniques, visualisations and affirmations, confidence building and fear releasing techniques. As well as learning a little bit of the science on how your body is designed to deliver a baby and how to encourage your mind and body to work in harmony with one another.
Your partner will learn the importance and significance of their role during the labour, learning massaging techniques and how to protect and look after you during the process.  
You will also be taught that like learning any new technique it’s all about ‘practice, practice, practice.’ 

This is perhaps my biggest hurdle at the moment, with work and a toddler to look after I often wish I had more time to fully commit to learning and implementing the hypnobirthing techniques. However, I am confident I’m trying my best with the affirmations in my mind, I feel calm and relaxed about the birth to come. I feel focused on the hypnobirthing positive philosophy and have the positive wording in my mind (surge instead of contraction!) My mindset is positive and I’m looking forward to the arrival of my baby no matter how it makes it entrance into the world I believe I can make this both a positive and exciting experience.
Jemma offers both 1 2 1 and group sessions and you can link to her website here. If your quick she is currently offering a 15% discount on group course bookings in October (limited availability).

Love


Lindsay 
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